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I'm somewhere between horny middle-aged guy and dirty old man.

who's got the power?

From an Atlanta public access show, found by Amy Guth. Katie Schwartz sent it to me. I wonder why?

I wanted to laugh at this at first, but this woman is so right. I’ve always wondered why many women make bad choices about who they sleep with (i.e. not sleeping with me). Now I understand – some guys’ dicks radiate heat and that seduces women’s pussies. Women are cum slaves and those men's penises have the power over them and their vaginas. Makes more sense than any explanation I’ve come up with.

sugasm #75

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Bella is back

One of my favorite erotic storytellers is Bella of The B____ Inside. She doesn't post frequently anymore, but when she does, it's primo stuff.

Read her latest, Thy Letter of Infamy.

Then, go back to The Snack Cart.

And if you're not hot and bothered enough, and have some time, read her multi-multi-part-it's-practically-a-novella, Tales From Under the Desk.

tmi tuesday #78

1. Stubble... good or bad? How often do you shave?

Where do you mean? I have a close-trimmed beard. In general, stubble, whether on the face or elsewhere is not good. It chafes.

2. How often do you kiss (read make out) with your so?

If you really mean making out, these days only as foreplay.

3. Have you ever placed a personal ad or answered a personal ad?

Yes. I got laid by respondents to a personal ad (here and here) and got a girlfriend (here) by responding to her ad.

4. Where was the first place you ever had sex?

On my future wife's studio couch in her half-railroad apartment in the East Village.

5. After a night of great sex, who do you tell? How much?

My wife. Well, it was with her, but I tell her how great it was.

I generally don't kiss and tell while in a relationship, and if there's any reason to make a reference to it, details are not shared.

Bonus: Have you ever kissed your partner on the lips after oral sex without brushing teeth, nor washing/gargling/rinsing out mouth? Turn on or off?

Yes. I like it, and she doesn't seem to mind.

alphabet meme

Tagged once again by Katie Schwartz. I never was good at tag. I'm always "it." I notice she and some others skipped some letters. I have more scruples so you get all 26.

A- Available or Single
One can be available without being single.

B- Best Friend
T, from whom I have tried to hide the existence of this blog.

C- Cake or Pie
Pie, specifically apple.

D- Drink of Choice
Espresso.

E- Essential Item
Computer.

F- Favorite Color
Blue.

G- Gummi Bears or Worms
I hate gummi shit. How about some nice halvah?

H- Hometown
Da Bronx.

I- Indulgence
Sex blogging.

J- January or February
Hate ‘em both.

K- Kids
Yes, grown.

L- Life is incomplete without
Good sex and good food.

M- Marriage Date
1971, 1996.

N- Number of Siblings?
1, deceased.

O- Oranges or Apples?
Fresh/juice: oranges. Sauce/pastry: apples. But that’s like comparing apples and oranges.

P- Phobias/Fears
Disease.

Q- Favorite Quote
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn
Is just to love and be loved in return"
- eden ahbez

R- Reasons to smile
Happy endings, whether in a movie or a hand job.

S- Season
Depends where I’m living, but either spring or fall.

T- Tag Three People
I’m going to make this exercise self-tagging for those who are interested.

U- Unknown Fact About Me
I don’t think there are any of those left after the last few memes.

V- Vaginas?
I like 'em natural and bushy.

W- Worst Habit
Not admitting when I’m in a bad mood.

X- X-M or Sirius?
X-M, but I haven't shelled out for it yet.

Y- Your Favorite Foods
Ashkenazy Jew food – corned beef, pastrami, brisket, kreplach, kishke, matzo brei, sour pickles…

Z- Zodiac
Taurus

fleshbot

I first discovered there was such as thing as sex blogs through Fleshbot. Every week, Chelsea Girl or Jefferson posts excerpts from blogs based on a theme.

It's because of this that when I started writing stories it occured to me to put them on a blog. Since I started blogging, they've been very kind to me, including this week's round-up.

I still find the Fleshbot Round-up a great way to find new blogs. As a blogger, it's the best traffic driver around and I credit Fleshbot for introducing hundreds, perhaps thousands, of people to my stories.

five facts

Preheated has dared me to state five facts about myself you wouldn't know by reading this blog. This will be challenging because I've already responded to similar tags for 5 things you don't know about me, six weird things about me, and my top 5.

What facts that haven't already been published am I willing to share? I think I'll stick to blogging and bloggers:

1. I used to be one of those who was skeptical about blogging. "What a waste of time." "An outlet for wannabes who can't really write." Instead, I've found a rich community of interesting, and often talented, people who blog about sex, life and politics.
   
2. I have a "vanilla" blog under my real identity. There are some people who read both my sex blogs and my vanilla blog. You can try to guess who you are and who I am, but I will not respond to such queries.
3. I have photo blogs under yet another identity. I know some people read this one and those, but am not aware of anyone who reads blogs under all three identities.
   
4. I monitor about 60 blogs*. Most of them are sex blogs. Between the sexy writing and the pix, I no longer desire paid pornography.
5. Most of my stories are pure fiction, but I've mixed in some based on truth. I don't have that many real-life experiences that would be compelling enough for stories, so I hope the fantasies keep coming to me. So far not a problem -- I have more ideas than time to write. And I'm hoping one day an idea will be expansive enough to turn into a novel.

*I love feedblitz -- it sends me a daily email with new posts from all the blogs I'm interested in.